It's a fact that you've been through hell and back together and it's nearly impossible for you to just stand there numbly and see her with another guy without having to feel anything. There's a reason for that feeling and it's because you two are fit together, but regardless she still continues appearing to be resistant, cold and less interested in it all. You'll have to make sure you address all these problems as early on as possible and try fixing a certain relationship before it dies. It's as simple as knowing that if you let that happen, your relationship will die.
The Most Common Relationship Issues Are Solvable!
As soon as a relationship kicks off everything seems so perfect and exciting. It's the most amazing feeling ever to share affection with a person. And it really is hard surrounding yourself in a mysterious environment due to the fact that she has known you for months, or even years. The good news here is that there isn't a need for that to be done.
It's actually one of those things that happen naturally in relationships when it's time for both of you to get to know each other and start feeling a bit more comfortable without the need for common awkwardness. The problem here is that in case the partner gets too comfortable, the relationship might start to appear a bit too dull, and that's exactly what's happening. This has to be fixed early on before you really get into it.
And due to the fact that nothing seems to be happening, all that sexual tension starts to evaporate. Everything starts to become too predictable and boring. You'll notice that if you study a bit about relationships most of the common issues arise from intimacy. And if isn't that great in bed, the relationship is bound to suffer because of that.
One other common problem occurs when the both of you start to get in each other's personal lives so much that all of your personal space which is reserved for yourself seems to start and then slowly disappear for good. Remember that you're still a human being and you have different interests from your partner, and respect as well.
It's not that hard reviving a certain relationship and then fixing it assuming that it hasn't died completely yet. Here are some of the common relationship issues that you can fix.
Try giving her some personal space to spend on her own. I personally feel that this is the biggest issue out there because most men try and force their presence in a women's everyday life. As soon as she starts getting too much of you, she starts losing interest. Try adopting some of your hobbies so you have something to do when you're not with her. This will simply lead to plenty of improvements in your life and not just the relationship.
Put some more trust in her. You don't have to go out there and call her a hundred times just for the sake of checking up on her as if you're her mother. Remove all bad thoughts out of your head because it won't prevent her from cheating, but have the opposite effect instead. Focus your attention on attraction, not stalking.
Every time she has a problem make sure you're there to listen. And don't just jump in with that perfect conclusion of yours unless she asks for it in particular. She'll want for you to be there to listen and understand her and then provide that comfort. That's all there is to it.
You need to establish your own goal in life and then pursue it with all your powers. A man that knows exactly what he's after in life and pursuits it passionately shows some serious male characteristics.
Don't make yourself that available. This is especially easy to pull off if you have goals and hobbies of your own. Availability is a turn off at times because, well, she'll get bored. Also learn how to say no, especially when there's something important for you to do instead.
Go out there and have some fun on dates. These dates aren't just there for new partners only, but they exist so that they can keep a certain relationship both fun and fresh. Visit some places you've never been to and then do some spontaneous stuff together. Go out there and skydive or just for some drinks or a concert. Make a date fresh.
Do your best not to ruin that initial sexual tension. Do you remember that feeling of both tension and curiosity you used to have at the start of it all? Well this is about time for you to bring that back into your life. Make sure she starts wondering whether or not you want to have sex at a certain time. And stop planning for it because it just kills natural tension. Never simply meet a women with the main intention of having sex. Do something that leads to it instead. And when you finally get to it, make it something spontaneous and worth the wait.
One key element to not forget here is that you shouldn't just go out there and take this personal space thing seriously for good. If you take it to the extreme you risk becoming too distant. This is going to hurt your relationship even further. Instead of that all there is to do instead is to strike a bit of a balance between being less available and a good comfort when you're actually there.
And if things don't seem to be working out at the end, maybe it's a bit too late for you to be able to fix the relationship and move on. It might be better for you to start up fresh on a new relationship then trying to revive one that's already dead.
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